Girls and women with desperate self-destructive lifestyles have been attacked and harmed for trespassing in dangerous relationships such as dating married men.
In fact, some have been killed by jealous wives who caught them with their husbands.
Melissa Morang, eHow Contributor has noted the apparent dangers in the following analysis of the romantic crisis.
She said you will certainly have many sad and lonely nights while dating a married man, because you are stealing and sharing him with his wife and be prepared for lots of headaches and heartaches, because there is no peace for any man cheating on his wife and your life will be exposed to the accusations and attacks of his wife and others who hate home breakers, because that is what you are; a home breaker.
You would be accused of being the cause of his broken home.
His children and family will rain curses on you for making their lives miserable, because you are the strange woman who is making their mother unhappy and making their father to spend the money he would have spent on their welfare on you. To them, you are a thief and a witch.
Cheating married men are among the worst liars in the world, because of their desperation to get you into in bed, they will say anything to impress and please you, but it is commonsense to know that any man cheating on his wife is not going to be honest, after he has been dishonest with his wife.
How can you trust him when it comes to your relationship? What kind of person takes up with someone else while still married? He might tell you he and his wife are both OK with the situation, but you just don't know. He might say his wife is a horrible person and try to put her down, but again, you don't know. It's not a good sign that he'll cheat on someone instead of being honest and working on the relationship. If his wife really is as horrible as he says she is, that calls into question his taste and judgment in women. If he has a pattern of not choosing the right woman for him, that doesn't bode well for your relationship.
~ Melissa Morang.
Imagine if you were his wife, how would feel to know that your husband is sleeping with another woman and returning home to sleep with you after sharing his loins with a woman who could be infected with a horrible contagious disease or afflicted by an evil spirit.
A cheating husband once passed on the pubic lice he got from his mistress to his innocent wife. She was hysterical and nearly murdered him instantly with a gun!
Would you blame her?
You can never escape from the grave consequences of being the partner in crime with a cheating married man.
The following are two responses selected from the opinions of single young women on dating married men.
I am against it, because what God has joined together, let no man put asunder.
But as a man or woman when you are married, you say bye bye to the singles world and stay focused with your family.
If a man respects and regards his wife, he will not be going our looking for what is not there.
~ Loveth M, University of Lagos, December 21, 2012.
I don't blame girls dating married men. They do that to get what they want.
What annoys me is the married men who are not contented with their wives, thereby committing adultery.
~ Roseline P, Yaba College of Technology, Lagos, December 21, 2012.
In conclusion, dating a married man may lead to the premature death of the man.
Moreover, studies show that cheating husbands have higher mortality rate compared to those who are loyal enough to stick with their one and only wife. Studies also show that they die earlier than the faithful ones.
While making love with your wife brings therapeutic effects, having sex with your mistress can bring negative stress that damages your heart and mind. The reason for this is the feeling of guilt, or the fear of getting caught. Doing the act with a mistress is usually done in rendezvous and hotels, adding more stress to the act says an article posted in inquirer.net.
~ Cheat on your Wife and You Die Early; Scientific Explanation.
~ By Orikinla Osinachi