Once you are married, you must make sure you remain married and don't give any space to anything or anyone that will destroy your marriage. Because your marriage is the bedrock of your family.
A dysfunctional marriage is the cause of a dysfunctional family.
Anything or anyone attacking and threatening to destroy your marriage is the enemy of your family and you must get rid of your enemies before they get rid of you.
Don't spare your enemies and you must openly denounce and disgrace them to warn others of their dangers, otherwise they will not be deterred and may even do more havoc to others who are ignorant of their previous evils. So, you must expose them before heaven and earth. That is why the word DISGRACE exists. So, justify it.
Lest you forget, it is evil and wicked to bring innocent children who never asked to be born into the world only to make them suffer.
Before you beat or hit your wife and mother of your child or children, remember you vowed for better for worse.
You must never make any child suffer because of your foolishness or wickedness.
The following three books are a must to protect and secure your marriage and your family.
1. Holy Bible.
2. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene and Joost Elffers and
3. The Art of War by Sun Tzu.
Read and apply them wisely everyday and everywhere.
Review and renew your matrimonial vows on every anniversary of your wedding or every 12 months if you never had a wedding.
Lest you forget, what matters most in every wedding is not the size of the wedding ceremony, but the honesty and transparency of the groom and bride.
If you lied to lure anyone into a wedding or marriage, your wedding or matrimonial vows are null and void, because your union is fake.
Lest you forget, if you invited many people to attend your wedding and witness your marriage, you must also inform them before you end it, otherwise you have deceived them by making them witnesses of the vows you have failed to keep.
To avoid curses and grave consequences, don't ever make vows you cannot keep.
May God our maker and owner help us all to overcome all our temptations, trials and weaknesses on earth.
~ By Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima, aka Orikinla Osinachi, prize winning Nigerian writer, most prolific African blogger and author of Children of Heaven, Sleepless Night, Scarlet Tears of London, Bye, Bye Mugabe, In the House of Dogs, Diary of the Memory Keeper, The Prophet Lied, co-author of Naked Beauty and editor of The Language of True Love. He has written many articles, commentaries and news reports published by Technorati, Blogcritics, Huliq, Yahoo Voices, Shvoong, Gather, Huffington Post, Face2Face Africa, Black Film Maker, Nigeria Films and Modern Ghana.