No matter the different versions of romance and your sweet and sour taste of it, the ultimate purpose of romance is your happiness.
That is why you must insist on being happy in every relationship and the only guaranty for your happiness is your safety and security.
You can never be happy if your life is not safe or secure.
If you are in a relationship with a guy who makes you to feel insecure, PLEASE QUIT before it is too late.
I have seen girls and ladies in relationship and marriage whose hearts always jump and skip in fear when their boyfriends or husbands are coming.
Why should you be sacred of the person you claim you love?
And why should the person who claims to love you scare you?
Is the person a monster? grin
You should be happy and at peace with the person you love.
But if you are not happy or at peace with him or her, then there is no happiness and there is no love.
Don't keep on pretending and suffering and smiling.
You have the right to a happy life and not living in fear of tomorrow.
I am sharing this truth with you, because my heart always breaks whenever I see unhappy people.
I cannot bear to see someone who is miserable and sad.
That is why I cannot accept the unhappiness of others in any relationship.
Unfaithfulness brings sadness in every relationship and marriage and that is why it is always best and safest to QUIT as soon as you can if you no longer want to continue, so that nobody can accuse you of cheating and being unfaithful.
Those who cheat are the fools who fail to exit and quit a relationship.
Forget your silly emotions, because emotions without good reasons are useless.
That is why I always insist that; don't ever date or marry anyone who cannot add value to your life.
What is the worth of anyone or anything that does not add value to your life?
Anyone or anything that does not make your life better, healthier, lovelier, safer and wealthier is not worth your time.
Stop wasting your time with anyone who is more of a liability and problem to your life.
Separate the wheat from the chaff in your choices in romance to avoid people and things that will not make you happy.
Refuse and reject anyone or anything that will not make you happy.
And whenever you pray and wish for anything, always confess:
I refuse and I reject anyone or anything that will not make me happy in my life.
Then flee from anyone or anything that does evil things to others. Because, the key to happiness is to avoid, prevent and reject anyone or anything that is evil.
~ By Ekenyerengozi Michael Chima, aka "Orikinla Osinachi",
Publisher/Editor of Nigerians Report Online, Nigerian Times, Kisses
'n' Roses, Nollywood Mirror, Nollywood Digital and author of Children
of Heaven (1987), Sleepless Night (2002), Scarlet Tears of London
(2006), Bye, Bye Mugabe (2008), In the House of Dogs (2011), Diary of The Memory Keeper (2013), The Prophet Lied (2013) and co-author with Dr. Chika Onu of Naked Beauty (2006).